Friday, December 26, 2008
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
I went in to be induced on Friday afternoon. By the time I got all the paperwork done I didn't get my IV untill around two. My doctor, Kathy came at five to break my water but because I needed four hours of penicillan (for my GBS) she didn't actually break my water untill seven.
Immediately after that I wanted my eidural! I had it within the next half hour but it wasn't working. He came back three more times to up my dosage. In the meantime I was feeling every contraction and it was not fun. I never planned on giving birth naturally so I didn't take classes for it or learn breathing or anything.
Kathy finally arrived and literally one contraction before I started pushing the epidural kicked in! I gave three pushes - two for her head and one for her shoulders and I was done.
Elizabeth Jean Barker was born December 12, 2008 at 9:33 p.m. She weighed 7 lb. 5 oz. And was 19 inches long.
We came home Sunday morning and Ethan came home Sunday night after spending the weekend with both sets of grandparents. We really missed our sweet little boy while he was gone!
The first thing he wanted to do was hold Ellie and he did such a good job. He was very soft and just giggled at every little move she made. If I put Ellie down to sleep he cries because he wants to know where the baby is at all times. They are best buddies already.
She had a hard time nursing our first night home but after getting some great advice from Aunt Rhonda who is La Leche certified and had five kids of her known, Ellie is nursing much better and my chest is no longer in great pain. Thanks Rhonda!!!
She has her week check-up on Thursday and then her Great Grandparents from Arizona are going to be here on Sunday so we are very excited to have them here.
I will have to post her pictures later because I am typing this in 10-15 minute incriments on my phone while trying to nurse! One day I will be more efficient and get more done but today is not that day!!
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Oh boy. Everyday after Ethan has fallen asleep for his nap I go in and make sure he is covered and that is not contorted into some horrible sleeping position. Well, this day I go in and find him completely comfortable and naked! He went to bed with clothes on, I promise. His shirt and shorts were on the floor along with his diaper. I don't know how this happened! Thankfully he did not wet while he was sleeping or immediately after waking up. I couldn't bring myself to wake him up to put anything on him so I let him sleep like this - though I did cover him with a blanket. I dealt with the nakedness after he woke up!
Thank heavens for washable markers
We have been trying really hard to find some activities to keep Ethan busy indoors all winter long. I finally got this book called The Everything Toddler Activity Book. It has alot of great ideas - this being one of them. It is bath paint. It is just dish soap, corn startch, and food coloring. You jut mix in enough corn startch to make the 'paint' the thickness you want and then add whatever color you like. Wha-la! Bath time paint. And the bonus is that when he was all done all I had to do was run a wet wash cloth over the walls and not only was the paint gone but because it was soap the tub was clean too!
This is Ethan new "comfy" chair for watching his show in. It doesn't look at all comfy to me but he loves it!
Ethan loves books. He has really taken a liking to this Cars book and we keep it in the car for him. Every time we get in he asks for his book. He sits there and turns the pages and points at it and says "car"!
I just put this one up here so you could see the tail on the costume. Disregard the pregnant lady.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
We decided to go to a Jazz game here in Salt Lake. Romantic I know but it is something we both enjoy and since I will only be about 3 weeks post pregnancy we don't have a lot of options. We have Bern saving for the past few months and purchased our very expensive lower bowl nearly front row tickets. I have never even spent that much on concert tickets before let alone a sporting event! It will be fun though and we are both realy looking forward to it.
Just as a little note that made me laugh. I was sitting here typing and Ethan asked Jacob for a drink of water. He had one his little plastic cups in his hand. Jacob went to the fridge and got him a bottled water - we have little ones that are kid sized. He took the lid off for him and handed him the bottle of water. Now in the split second before the bottle reached Ethan I knew what was going to happen. You see, when Ethan wants a drink from a cup I get him water from the fridge so it's nice and cold - I pour it in his cup. So what does Ethan do? Dumps the entire bottle upside down and over flows the cup all over the couch. Oh, what a boy! We both couldn't stop laughing. He is getting so big and though we love it we hate it at the same time.
He is picking up on a lot of words and I am still trying to convince Jacob that certain words - though technically not swear words for us - certainly are to a little two year old!! We will work on it. Not that Jacob has a bad mouth but you know - CRAP HAPPENS!!
The new words he has picked up ate so random too. Things like watch, cup, rice, cup, baby, story, and tickle. Of course no one can understand him when he says them except me and Jacob but that's what makes it so gosh darn cute!!
Well it's official. I have one month left and I am ready to be done pregnant. I am so tired of not being able to roll over in bed without being out of breathe or just get up off the floor in less than two minutes for that matter! I yhumk Jacob is really getting tired of me asking for a "push" to get up off the couch. I had my appointment yesterday and Ellie is weighing a healthy 5 1/2 lb. We have everything ready for her and after our over nightet in Brigham next week for Thanksgiving I will pack our hospital bag and Jacob will get the car seat in the car.
The only concern at my appointment was that I had lost some weight (due to that nasty little virus I had two weeks ago). If at my next appointment I have not gained some weight back I will most likely have to go on atleast moderate bed rest. Which is nearly impossible with Ethan running around!
Jacob and I have our five year anniversary coming up in January and since we will have a newborn we can't do too much.
Thursday, November 6, 2008
The three of us drove up to Brigham on Friday (pictures will have to come later!) and had a great time playing show and tell and visiting all the Grandmas.
Saturday my sister-in-law, Samantha, and cousin, Katie came to moms house so we could all make peanut brittle which has kind of become a yearly tradition for us. Everything went really good and we only ruined three batches!!
On Sunday I went to my friends baby blessing for her new little girl. It was great and the baby was so cute!!
We drove home Sunday after church and all was good - or so we thought!!
Monday morning Ethan started throwing up. Poor little boy! He was miserable and I was miserable because not only was he sick but he had thrown up all over the couch and our bed. I talked tomom and dad and apparently Samantha, Katie, and Mom were all in the same condition as well.
By Tuesday afternoon Jacob and I were in and out of the bathroom every 20 minutes and throwing up just as often. Ethan was doing better but dehydrated. Finally Tuesday night I called my visiting teacher and she took me to Lakeview Hospital. When I got there I was furious!!! They refused to treat me because I was 34 weeks pregnant. Does that sound right to you? I was mad. They said they were reluctant to treat me because they didn't know me. So they sent me still dehydrated and very sick. I plan on calling and complaining.
By the morning I was at my doctors office in Ogden with an iv. While I was there Jacob drove Ethan to Primary Childrens where they put both of them on an iv. They both went through two bags each and I went through three bags. We were all sent home with anti-nausea medicine and orders to drink, drink, drink!
We are all feeling better now but are just exhausted from being totally dehydrated for two days and just from being so sick. I am so glad it's over and I hope we never have to be that sick again! Especially at the same time.
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
On Saturday I took Ethan to our urgent care facility. Not for anything serious; I just suspected an ear infection and was not willing to suffer needlessly all weekend long.
We arrived right after opening at 10:15 and found an hour wait already ahead of us due to a deep gash in the forehead ahead of us. We sat as patiently as a 7 1/2 month pregnant lady and her two year possibly could.
While waiting, a woman walked in with her daughter who could not have been more than 7 years old. She explained to the woman atthe counter that her daughter had been sick for nearly a week and it had been getting much worse for the last few days including a high fever.
As I heard her talk kept wondering to myself why she had waited that long to bring her daughter in. Then I heard the receptionist ask if she had insurance. When her reply was no I instantly understood.
My urgent care co-pay is 15 dollars. For this woman to pay full price was 170 dollars. This of course didn't even begin to include any prescriptions that were to follow.
After thinking about our health this year I am so thankful for amazing, inexpensive (on our part), government insurance. We pay a measly 60 dollars a paycheck for full family coverage.
So far this year Ethan has had one minor surgery, three hospital stays, and countless well and sick child visits. Not mention a minor surgery on my part, a pregnancy, and all the other visits Jacob and I have had throughout the year - including dental.
I just made a few estimates on what our costs might have been without insurane (including our big delivery in December) and we would have been looking at over 20,000 in doctor and hospital bills.
How do people live without insurance!!
On a seperate note - a much happier one. Ethan will be a dinosaur this year. When I was little my mom made me a green dinosaur costume and has kept it. She made a few adjustments and updates for Ethan and it is stinking cute! I will have to dress him up and take some pictures.
Jacob and Ethan spent all day yesterday in Brigham visiting family so that I could have a day at home by myself - which I have not had since Ethan was born. I have time alone, like nap time. But never a whole day with nothing to do but whatever I wanted!
It was awesome! I spent the day scrapbooking and eating, I confess, more than just a few rice krispie treats. I used my fabulous cricut more than it has been used beforeand I loved every minute. It was definitely a day I needed before Ellie is born. Thanks Hun!!
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Yes, it is only October 11th and we have snow. And we are talking the kind of stuff that sticks to the ground. There is maybe 2 inches and Ethan is so excited about it. Grandma Youngberg bought him a snow suit but we have to wait till Tuesday to get it. The snow will most likely be gone by then but we HAVE to get it!!
I had my 30 week check-up last Tuesday. All is well and Ellie is weighing in at a whopping 3 lb. 10 oz. Right on schedule. She is a very busy little baby who keeps me up at all hours of the night running to the restroom. I just can't help it - I have to have a glass of chocolate mill EVERY night before bed. I have to!!!
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Every time we are getting ready for nap time or bed time we are usually out in the front room. That's where we play, rough house, and everything else in the world. All we have to say to him is "Ethan. Do you want to go na-night?". And off he runs into his bedroom.
He climbs up onto the love sac which is by his bed. We have some books that we keep near by and while we are still making our way into the bedroom he picks out a story to read.
We sit down with him and he gets puppy and his blanket, read the story and then he crawls into bed all by himself. We tuck him in, kiss him, and leave him to fall asleep.
He falls asleep without a sound and without moving from where we left him. What two year old is excited for bed time let alone nap time?!?!
Today during nap I went through our routine and once I laid him down I checked the mail. It maybe took me three minutes at the most. I looked in his room and he was out like a light. He hadn't moved a muscle and slept for two hours. Could life be any better?
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Saturday, September 27, 2008
of the Bountiful Hospital. They have been great and since their specialty is children it has been much better for all of us.
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Michele Barker
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Monday, September 15, 2008
He was still in bed this morning at 6:00 when Jacob checked on him.
Sunday, September 14, 2008
"Big boy bed"
Ethan has been playing on it all night. Mostly climbing on it and jumping off but he is half monkey. We were going to buy just one single bed for him but purchased bunk beds instead - one for Ethan and one to store for Elie to use later on. They are also made of solid wood so that is a big bonus. Ethan has already added some "character" to his so it will be nice to be able to refinish the beds if needed. He is very excited to sleep in his new bed tonight - he might be up a little late playing!!!
Thursday, September 11, 2008
For example we went to the park and before he would go down the slide he would THREE!! Only he pronounces it tree. And then if someone else was going down he would yell three for them too. What a sweetheart.
So for the last few days he runs around the house yelling three every time he does something.
On a seperate note I am happy to announce that Ethan took a nap in his big boy bed today without crying and without falling asleep on the floor or being rocked to sleep. How awesome is that! May NAP TIME live forever!!! (I wish).
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
We just tend to go through our daily routine and life goes on.
On Sunday we converted Ethan's crib into a bed. We are going to buy him a new twin bed next month and give his crib to Elie. Sunday night was a little rough but after an hour and a half he was asleep on the floor. We moved him back into bed several times that night. He kept rolling out and we kept putting him back in.
After another night of him sleeping on the floor we bought a bed rail for him. Last night he only came out of his room twice and after the second time he got out, shut his door, crawled back into bed, and was sleep by 8:30. It was rarher nice.
We keep a gate at his door so he can't wander the house at night and in the morning he comes to the gate, peeks out and says hi over and over unroll we get him. It's really cute.
We are starting to get quite a few things together for Elie coming in December. Like I said crib and dresser will be available next month when we buy Ethan a new matching set. Clothes are coming slowly and there are only a few other things besides that.
It has rained all day today and Ethan is not happy about it. Wednesdays are our park day and we had to cancel. He loves to play in the sand. He was having such a rough time we had to put in Robin Hood. The old Disney cartoon. It is one of his favorites - right up there with Bob the Builder and Cars.
Well, now that I have figured out how to blog through my IPhone more posts should be coming. It is much easier to do on my phone than the computer.
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Monday, August 11, 2008
This is Ethan infront of the oh so luxurious hotel we stayed in in Bisbee. The San Jose Logde (with adjoining Bar)
Floyd Harris - September 12, 1908. Still going strong and loving every minute!
This is Bisbee. It is an old mining town that is mostly tourists now. It is a beautiful place and reminds of somethig I would see back in Europe with the houses stacked ontop of each other throughout the mountains.
This is one of the actresses in Tombstone. They were just setting up for the day and she was more than willing to take a picture with Ethan. Even though Ethan was not to willing to take a picture with her.
This was the result after the baseball game. We didn't get out of parking lot before he fell asleep. Usually if I try and take him out of his car seat he wakes up but he was so tired he stayed asleep long enough for me to carry him up to my grandparents hotel room and stayed asleep while I removed his shoes and socks and slept until I had to wake him up to get ready to go the airport.
After a flight home and a good nights rest we are all doing a little better and are very happy to be sleeping in our beds again. There is nothing like a good, long, tiring, vacation to remind you how much you miss home - not to mention your awesome husband who had to stay home and work.
Saturday, August 2, 2008
Sunday, July 13, 2008
We have been on a guitar hero kick lately and Ethan just loves it!! He gets "his" guitar and starts to rock out while we are playing the songs on the tv. When we are done and they started cheering on the screen he drops the guitar and screams and claps his hands. How cute! I love this little guy. We are already starting to prepare for our trip to Arizona in August. Time really sneaks up on us especially these last few months. So if I start planning now then I won't be caught off guard in 3 1/2 weeks when it is time to leave.
We have almost stopped nap time completely now and boy is it an adjustment. Not only for Ethan but for me and Jacob as well. It is much harder to get things done and there is certainly less time for me to do things for myself as well. Today was especially rough and we missed church completely because of several tantrums and throwing time out incidents. But we are recovering and the day seeems to be getting better (knock on wood).
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Ethan would the kids splash water on him but he would not have anything to do with the pool. It was so cold!
Ani had the best time playing and was as cute as ever.
Cannon was the man with the squirt guns. He got everyone all wet and despite his shivers refused to get out and get warm.
Poor little Quentin couldn't even pull the trigger on the squirt guns he was shivering so bad so he had to get out and warm up a few times during the party.
Little Abby was too little to get in the pool but her little hat was just the finishing touch on sweet outfit. What cute little girl.
Monday, June 16, 2008
After a little persuasion from me and Grandma Youngberg he finally got into it and had a lot of fun playing around and saying "hi" over and over again to the other kids.
What a cute little wet boy! He played for almost half an hour but after a shot of high pressure water up his shorts he was done and did not want to continue.